Navigating political conversations on a cruise can be difficult. Nobody wants to argue with friends and family while on vacation; however, political topics are more likely to arise with the 2024 presidential election nearing. Though avoiding all controversial topics is the best way to keep the peace, sometimes it's impossible to steer clear of political discussions altogether.
In these situations, approach the conversation with sensitivity and respect. Setting boundaries and working to find common ground can help maintain a positive atmosphere, even if heated disagreements arise. Moreover, whether you're talking with strangers or family members, it's important to focus on understanding different viewpoints rather than striving to be correct or change their minds.
Here are 5 tips for navigating political conversations on a cruise to help ensure all discussions remain respectful.
Set boundaries early
If you're willing to engage in a few friendly debates, set boundaries early. They will help preserve your relationship with the other participants. Perhaps there's a topic you do not want to discuss, or maybe there's a specific way you'd prefer to handle disagreements.
For instance, you may establish a rule that the conversation must stay focused on ideas, rather than personal attacks. Moreover, maybe you're okay talking about politics over a pre-dinner drink; however, as soon as you've made your way into the Main Dining Room, the topics need to be more lighthearted.
Before diving in, state that you're willing to listen and engage if you feel the interaction is fair. As soon as you feel as though you're being spoken over or disregarded, indicate you'll end the conversation instead of encouraging a heated debate that could damage your relationship.
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Avoid sensitive topics
Sometimes, conversations—especially political ones—can be heated. If you sense that the conversation is moving into a divisive territory, remind the other participants to stay on track. Alternatively, you could excuse yourself from the situation. Rather than subject yourself to unproductive debates, stepping away and going to the restroom might be better.
The "white flag approach" is a great way to politely indicate that you're leaving the conservation soon. Initially coined by Rachel Greenwald, the term was inspired by automobile racing, where a white flag is waved to signal to the driver that they're starting the final lap.
Instead of abruptly leaving, give a signal that you're getting ready to head out, followed by a question or comment that directs the conversation away from politics. For instance, you could say, "I'd like to grab another drink at the Alchemy Bar, but before I go, I wanted to ask you about your shore excursion in St. Thomas. Did you enjoy snorkeling with the sea turtles?" If you haven't visited a port of call yet, you could inquire about what excursion they're looking forward to the most, or ask if they had a relaxing sea day.
Find common ground
Everyone is entitled to their own opinions. However, that doesn't mean you can't find common ground, even if you have differing views. If your primary mission is to prove other people wrong or change their minds, you shouldn't be having the conversation anyway.
Instead of focusing on what you don't agree on, try to understand where the other person is coming from. You never know if you'll find an area where your perspectives overlap! If you spend the entire conversation waiting for your turn to speak, rather than engaging in active listening, you're less likely to find common ground.
Research published in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology reveals that a "shared reality," which influences how people communicate, cooperate, and resolve conflicts, plays an important role in social connections, as reported by PsyPost. Though it's crucial in romantic relationships, it also influences social bonding among strangers.
Steer clear of social media
Though staying educated about the current political climate is important, you're allowed to disconnect while on vacation! While there are advantages to staying active on social media, it's okay to acknowledge the negative impacts it can have on productivity and mental health.
Staying up-to-date on the news can serve as a catalyst for debates, especially when the news is presented in a way that highlights divisions. If you plan on consuming news regularly onboard, approach any subsequent discussions with curiosity and empathy.
Remember: the primary goal of your cruise is to relax and enjoy your time onboard! Do not seek out heated political discussions. Instead, balance your news consumption with activities that help you make the most of your time away! Enjoy your time on the lido deck, and don't miss the amazing production shows onboard!
Respect other's privacy
Perhaps you're in the mood for a friendly debate but your table mates aren't. Respect their choice and find another topic. Pivot from political discussions to those about their day on the ship.
What did they have for breakfast? Did they enjoy their time ashore? What are they looking forward to later that night? Though small talk can be annoying, it's better than creating a hostile environment!
Just as you want your boundaries respected, don't forget to respect theirs. Sometimes, people want to enjoy their vacation without diving into heavy subjects. If you're told they aren't interested in political discussions, shift the focus to more neutral topics.
Elizabeth Wright
Elizabeth graduated from New York University's Arthur L. Carter Journalism Institute with her M.A. in Journalism in May 2023. Growing up, she had the privilege of traveling frequently with her family and fell in love with cruising after sailing on the Oasis of the Seas her freshman year of high school. She wanted to pursue a career that highlighted her passion for travel and strengths as a writer.
